Posts by Haven Caylor-Brown

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“I’m shaking the Moon”

We are fortunate to have Nana over just about every evening
to help/play with Carter and Ammon while we jog.  On Saturday evenings, Nana leaves and Ammon
and Carter go immediately to the shower so as to get ready for church on
Sundays. Saturday night was no exception; however, when Ammon and I accompanied
Nana to her car, we looked up and saw a gorgeous half-moon with silver clouds
drifting across it. Ammon said, “Look it’s the moon!” We all looked up and
commented on it. In a few moments I looked down and Ammon was shaking her head.
“What are you doing?”, I asked.  While
shaking her head once more, Ammon replied, “I’m shaking the moon!”

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Fun Friday

We had a surprise at the Texas Roadhouse on Friday evening.
Mamaw, Aunt Karen, Uncle Tony, and Alusha joined us for dinner! It was great.
Carter and Ammon could hardly eat due to the excitement. I don’t think Ammon
and Carter have ever eaten out like that with them. We’ve had plenty of family
get-togethers where we have enjoyed being together, but not out at a
restaurant.

Another enjoyable moment for Friday came when Sean and I
jogged late in the evening. It was cloudy, and it sprinkled rain. It was so
refreshing. There wasn’t enough rain to make our shoes soggy ( I hate jogging
with soggy shoes/socks!), but the rain on my face and shoulders felt so good
especially after our days with temperatures hovering at 100 degrees. Enjoy your
weekend everyone!

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Fraternals

Los Fraternales: Lladró

Ammon and Carter hold up Haven’s world.

I was so surprised that Lladró had a piece dedicated to male/female fraternal twins. The Spanish name is “Los Fraternales”. Sean gave it to me the Christmas of 2009, and I adore it. The piece sits on the side board flanked by pictures of Carter and Ammon. I am so blessed to have them in my life.

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Pool Party

Carter, Ammon, & Aunt Karen: August 3, 2011

We had such a great Wednesday with Aunt Karen and Cousin Alusha. Karen has a gift for giving attention and energy to children that is phenomenal. Carter and Ammon love being with her. Everyone swam for about two hours. Karen and Alusha then had lunch with us. I know Alusha can still come swim with us on the weekends, but it was his last time to come during the 2011 Summer Vacation time away from school. We think he enjoyed himself as well. It is also worth noting that it got up to 100° on Wednesday afternoon on our front, shaded porch! You all stay cool!

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Tuesday’s Family Movie

We had such a great Tuesday. It was Sean’s 4th
day of a four-day weekend. We had been trying to figure out which summer
cartoon movie Carter and Ammon would like. We decided to go see “Cars 2”. It
was great. We were big fans of “Cars”, and we have several CDs by Larry the
Cable Guy: He cracks us up!

Carter and Ammon did real well. The pop corn and Coke helped tremendously since it was
a 12:30 p.m. movie, and we had not eaten lunch ;o) There was some wiggling and
squirming, but we made it! Carter even got so relaxed in my arms that he slept
the last 15 minutes of the movie. When it was over, I didn’t want to leave. The
moment was so perfect: Ammon was happy, the movie had been humorously great,
and there was little Carter asleep in my arms. I quickly stored the moment in
my heart, lifted up a silent prayer to God “Thank you God for such a wonderful
moment!”, and we got up and left the theater. The afternoon finished with a great trip to the China Moon Chinese buffet. Such a great, non-eventful day that meant so much.

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“Peace be unto You”

Jesus the Master Teacher: Lladró

John 20:26

“…Then came Jesus, the doors being shut, and stood in their
midst and said, ‘Peace be unto you.’”

As I said a few days ago, I wanted to introduce you to my
favorite piece of Lladró. In 2000, I landed in Spain June 7, and I returned
about June 27. For almost three weeks, I searched from Madrid to Málaga to
Santander back to Madrid for the perfect piece of Lladró that fit my budget and
my life. My next to the last day I found it: Jesus the Master Teacher. Not just
Jesus the Master Teacher, but Jesus my friend, my brother, and my Lord and
savior. I also got several other pieces.

Jesus sat on my Nanny’s sideboard until 2004 when we moved
into the house we live in now.  He then took his rightful place over the fireplace mantel that is in our living room which is situated in the middle of our house. No matter what season of the year it is or what seasonal decorations are in the living room Jesus doesn’t leave his place. All decorations as well as the entire house have Jesus as its center. It is symbolic because he needs to be the center of my peace and my life. I hope this picture helps you  fix yourself for a few moments on Jesus, and I
hope the words I’ve written fall upon your hearts  and help bring you peace today.

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Little Red Wagon

I think the last time I mentioned my Nanny Caylor was on my
May 15th blog when it was her birthday. I guess there isn’t a day
that goes by when she doesn’t come to mind at one point or another. I
thought about her all evening Thursday. It all revolved around Ammon and
Carter’s little red wagon. All of a sudden, they want to be ridden around again
in their wagon which is really fine with me. The funny thing is that they
haven’t ridden in it in about 4 months or so. They rode in it twice on
Thursday. It was also on Thursday evening when I kept jogging by it in my 45
minute jog we do every evening. Every time I passed it, I thought of my Nanny
and Daddy.

From the time my father was born until my grandmother became
pregnant with their second child, Nanny had “a blast” raising my father. She
often told me that she “finished growing up with Haven”. One of the things she
and Daddy use to do was ride down their hill to the railroad tracks in his
little red wagon. It was really a ride because it was about 200 yards…all downhill!
She said they spent hours playing that way together. Carter and Ammon’s wagon
doesn’t have a good steering mechanism, so we don’t ride it downhill; however,
every time they get in their wagon, relax, and allow me to pull them, in my mind I’m saying a prayer up to heaven, “Here’s to you Nanny and Daddy!”

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Lladró (Porcelain, not a sneeze) ;o)

In July of 1990, a friend of mine, Kim Legg, an American who
I met at the University of Madrid in Madrid, Spain asked me if I wanted to
accompany her to shop for some Lladró. If you don´t know, Lladró is porcelain
that is made exclusively in Valencia, Spain. It is also world renown. In 1990,
I had NEVER heard of Lladró, but I told Kim, “Sure. I will go and learn.” I
didn’t find any that I liked that day nor did I see any I wanted to buy until I
returned to Spain in 2000. It was then that I bought several pieces. I plan to
show my first and most important piece this coming Sunday.

The Father’s Day of 2008 Carter and Ammon were still
gestating. However, Sean and I bought each other a Father’s Day gift when we
were in New York City. It was two pieces of Lladró (both the same piece) by the
name “Fatherhood”.  Both of them are placed on our mantle, and it is a constant reminder of how God blessed me to be a father. I am in constant prayer that I will not let Him down.

In the next few weeks, I want to share some of my most treasured Lladró pieces with you. I hope you enjoy them.

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Spiral Timelines & Julie Stokes

 

Several years ago when I was completing my Master’s Degree
in Education, I had an interesting professor for my History of Education class.
He had us students do a timeline of our lives not as a linear timeline, but a
spiral timeline. It looked like a spiral galaxy when we finished. He said
something to the effect that events as well as people in our lives can “circle
around” and come side by side with us again (kind of like there is
nothing new in education, it just has new names).

I have found the idea of a spiral timeline to be so true.
These past few years have found me re-connecting with some wonderful family and
friends with whom I was either very close to or with whom I worked with and
really respected at one point or another. Thanks to Facebook, I have been
re-connected to a wonderful friend, a great Christian lady, and educational
colleague, Julie Stokes (another friend, Virginia Foley, was involved in Julie
contacting me…Love ya, Virginia!).

Caden, Julie, & Kobe Stokes

After several months of Facebook corresponding, Julie and
her two boys, Caden and Kobe, came for dinner and a swim last Saturday. It was
an awesome reunion. Julie and I caught up on life, and Caden and Kobe were
wonderful playmates for Ammon and Carter. Kobe and Caden are several years
older, but they were so kind, gentle, and helpful to Carter and Ammon while
they swam: Great mentors I say. They have an awesome mother, so why wouldn’t
they be awesome themselves. My family and I are looking to many more years of
spending great fellowship time with Julie and her family.

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Praise the Lord for Mamaw

Mamaw & Carter Summer 2011

Mamaw & Ammon Summer 2011

I’ve mentioned how grateful I am to my mother for helping
take care of Carter and Ammon. Well, I am doing it again, and it won’t be the
last. When I leave Ammon and Carter with my mother (their Mamaw), I don’t have
any worries. I know they will be fed, clothed, played with, entertained, and
most importantly loved. If I knew I had to die in a few hours, I would be
satisfied knowing that Carter and Ammon would have a lot of love and nurturing
from Mamaw in the coming years. I have never known anyone who loves children as
much as my mother does. I was so blessed that God gave me my mother and my
father to be born to.

Carter and Ammon were with Mamaw on Monday night. There are so many things to get done at our house and in our yard, and Mamaw (Aunt Karen helps too…thank you Aunt Karen!) allowing them to stay with her for a couple of days and a night every now and then helps me get them done.  As I left them
with her on Monday morning (and as we always do) we all said “Good bye! I love
you. Be good, and be careful.” We also gave hugs and kisses. I left my babies
playing and happy, and I had no worries. Thank you God, for my wonderful and caring mother, and thank you, Mamaw for being who God made you.