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Daddy H Job/Chores

My house isn’t a show place, and I doubt it ever will be.
There are 2 adults, 2 almost three year olds, 5 indoor, declawed cats, and 2
dachshunds living in it. It’s our home. However, in the past three years, I’ve
learned that our living space HAS TO BE STRAIGHTENED, and the kitchen HAS TO BE
CLEAN. The surprising thing is that I thoroughly enjoying cleaning, but it’s
finding the time to do it. I am very glad Carter and Ammon can do some small
chores, but, of course, they cannot keep focused on the tasks. I am also very
thankful that Carter and Ammon can go to Mamaw’s house for a visit while I
clean or grade my university students’ work from online. I have 24 students
this semester.

At 9:00 A. M. on Wednesday morning, I was enthralled to
begin cleaning. It was like being shot out of a cannon. What had happened
between dropping off Carter and Ammon at Mamaw’s house at 1:00 P. M. on
Tuesday and 3:00 Wednesday afternoon when they returned???? (This will be more than items in a series! LOL………heeeeeeeeeere we go!)

I came home and started downloading 24 assignments from the
UTC Blackboard (online teaching base) and began laundry. Next, I went into
Ooltewah for a few groceries to make dinner. I then returned home to start dinner.
I started grading the 14 undergraduate assignment (one the average about  4 pages per assignment). Next, I finished
preparing dinner. After eating, I washed the dinner plates and pans. Following dinner
Sean and I jogged our 50 minutes. While doing some other chores in the kitchen,
I was able to watch Glee and enjoy an
evening cup of decaf coffee. After Glee, I began to grade the 10 assignments
from graduate students (They have 5-6 pages to grade). I then wrote each grad
student a note regarding the positives and things to improve on. I went to bed
around 10:45 but listened to cats run back and forth through the house playing,
hissing at each other, eating, and using the litter box for about an hour.

At 6:15 Tuesday morning I began writing notes to the
undergraduate students, and then I emailed all 24 students. So, back to 9:00
Tuesday morning. I was enthralled to do chores: sweep, mop, wash and dry
clothes, make the beds, scrub toilets, and feed dogs. I made appointments for
Sean’s car and the carpenter to come and measure for new handles for the
kitchen cabinets, shaved, showered, went to Sam’s Wholesale for Carter and
Ammon who are in charge of snacks for the next two weeks at preschool, went to
Collegedale for some Little Debbie Apple pies (Carter has to provide an “A”
snack …Ammon has “B”,and she will provide Blueberry and Banana muffins), picked
up some “m” objects at the Dollar Tree for Ammon and Carters’ “M” bags at
preschool, picked up some chicken for Sean’s lunch tomorrow, and then I
returned home to start Tuesday’s dinner. Carter and Ammon came home at 3:00,
and I began my Daddy H responsibilities anew. I’ll say it again, and you
may not believe me. I thoroughly enjoy chores. I’m so grateful God gave me
Carter, Ammon, my health and my home. Thank you, God. I am truly busy and
blessed.

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Ammon & Carter’s first school project

Carter & Ammon's Marvelous me: September 19, 2011

Well, folks, what do you think of Carter and Ammon’s first
school project? I think the title of the unit the children are working on is “Marvelous
Me”. Ammon and Carter told Sean and me where to put the pictures and stickers.
As you can tell, the pictures represent things Carter and Ammon like to do,
things they like to eat, and things such as cartoons that they like. I hope
everyone has a Terrific Tuesday!

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Daddy’s Birthday (September 19, 1939)

He was born in Varnell, Georgia on Tuesday September 19,
1939. He was the first of only two children born to Troy and Naomi Caylor. He was
born at his Nanny Alexander’s house (Nanny, Granddaddy, and Daddy lived with
Nanny Alexander until January of 1941). I forgot the name of Daddy’s doctor,
but Nanny Alexander was in the room when Daddy was born. During the whole
pregnancy, Nanny knew in her heart and prayers that she was going to have a
girl. She had grown up with two younger sisters and was surrounded by girly
things for so long, she just knew she was having a girl…God had a surprise!

When Nanny woke up from the anesthesia and learned she had a
boy, she had a split second of disappointment. She even had Daddy’s name picked
out as Hannah Rebekah (both from the Bible); however, when she heard the news,
she, of course, had to give up all of her plans. Knowing Nanny the way my Nanny
Alexander and Granddaddy did, they knew she wouldn’t mind if THEY named him (I’m
serious. They knew she wouldn’t mind, and she didn’t). While Nanny was sleeping and Nanny Alexander and Granddaddy gave Daddy his first bath, they named him Oliver Haven Caylor: Oliver from Nanny’s father, William Oliver Alexander, and Haven from
Granddaddy’s father, Luther Haven Caylor.

I could keep writing and writing about Daddy, but emotionally it’s kind of
difficult, so I will say just one more thing. From 1979 until his death on May
28, 1982, my father and I shared a multiplicity of wonderful times together. My
favorite times that I have stored in my heart were when he and I traveled back
and forth to church together and discussed the Lord, the Bible, school, life in general, and Coonhounds. It was such a wonderful and fulfilling experience having Daddy
as both my earthly father AND brother in Jesus Christ. That precious bond is
something that death and time cannot erase. Happy Birthday in heaven, Daddy.

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Lake Winnepasaukah

Since last the summer of 2010, Nana has wanted to treat Carter and Ammon to a day at the Lake Winnepesaukah Amusement Park in Lakeview, Georgia. We all got to go Saturday (9-17-2011). I am not going to write much about the park itself, but Sean’s mother (Nana) and father (Papaw Brown) use to take Sean there quite frequently while he was growing up. It is quite a nostalgic experience for both Nana and Sean. The Park itself has been there since approximately 1916. We all had a great time, and Ammon and Carter were exhausted when they left. Thank you, Nana, for a wonderful day.

Carter, Nana, & Ammon

Carter & Ammon

Sean & Ammon

Carter & Haven

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Preschool Update

Carter and Ammon had their first, complete school week for
the 2011-2012 school year. Their teacher is Mrs. Paula, and they seem to like
her. The class is comprised of 7 children and it is a “spiraled” classroom…not
the shape (LOL), but older 2 year olds like Ammon and Carter are “spiraled”
with younger 3 year olds.  Otherpreschools would still have Ammon and Carter with brand new 2 year olds while they are almost 3….big developmental differences both mentally and physically between the two ages.

I guess the best thing is that when I pick them up, they are
tired, and don’t want to talk. I know they have had a busy time both physically
and mentally ;o) However, little by little during the day after school, we
discuss a few things that went on the in the classroom. We ask that you all keep
Carter and Ammon in your prayers for a safe, happy, and learning-filled year.

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A Friday Blessing

As you go through this Friday and look to the coveted Weekend…

May your shower/bath be warm and
relaxing

May your drive to and from work
be tranquil and trouble-free

May your job and everyone around
you be blessed today because you are there and you care

May you take a moment to let your
family, friends, and loved ones know you love them

May you take a quiet moment to
count your blessings and thank our Heavenly Father, and

May God hold you in the hollow of
His hand during this blessed Friday and bless your weekend

Haven

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Screech Owl

I’ve never seen a Screech Owl up close, but I have heard them a
lot during my life. Our Screech Owl has been “screeching” its tune off and on
for about 2 weeks now. I love the contrast sound to our Great Horned Owl’s
(Hoot Owl) “hoot” that I wrote about back in July. The 3 second trill of the
Screech Owl, to me, has a “cold” sound to it. It wasn’t cold the first night I
heard it some days ago, but the memory is of chilly October/November, star-lit
nights either listening to them at Nanny Caylor’s house or listening to them
with Katie and Josh the Black and Tan Coonhounds several years ago on a frozen,
moon-lit night up on the ridges of Varnell, Georgia. Either way, I associate
the screech with colder temperatures ;o) You know, since I heard it’s call the
other night, I have tried and tried to remember when I’ve heard both the Hoot
Owl and the Screech Owl on the same night. I cannot. I wonder why that is?
Happy Thursday!

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Early Autumn( This time of year and a song!)

I got to hear a song on Tuesday called Early Autumn. I had never heard it before. It was a hit in 1949 with Woody Herman. How did I hear it? Well, I’ll let you all in on a tiny
secret…On very rare occasions I listen to the XM Satellite Radio’s channel 4,
the 1940s station! Woo hoo! With it, I make a connection to my Nanny Caylor who, of
course, grew up listening to the radio for entertainment until the 1950s with
its introduction of the television. When I was in high school I use to take home the Time/Life books called This Fabulous Century (the 20thcentury of course) from my school library, and Nanny and I would read over the 1930s and 1940s editions. She and I would discuss the arts, entertainment, important news, music, and fashions of those decades. It was awesome! When I listen to the 1940s channel, I always imagine Nanny standing in her kitchen making dinners to the music, sitting down with a cold glass of
lemonade and the radio during the long, hot summer days of the 1940s, or simply keeping up with the latest news of such events as World War II, the Berlin Blockade, or the
creation of the Israel state.

The other part I enjoyed was the title of the song itself, Early Autumn. Since our flood from Tropical Storm Lee last week, we have been blessed with cooler weather and
lower humidity. We even have a few trees which have started losing their green
and giving way to their autumn colors. As we jog in the evening, there is such
a nice, refreshing breeze and a fresh smell in the air telling us that summer is
losing its muggy grasp. Hearing the song Tuesday was a treat that combined the
love of my grandmother and autumn all in one. It would be so cool to call her
up, and say, “Hi, ya, Nanny! Do you remember the song from 1949, Early Autumn?” ;o)

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My Best Friend (but only during the Power Outage)…

….I’m such a “fair-weathered friend”. LOL

Such a good friend! (Especially Septembers 6 & 7, 2011)

My friend, Pam Patty Townsend, will really find it amusing that my best
friend for last Tuesday and Wednesday was our gas grill. She is the friend who
told me it sounded like I was “in love” with my Kitchen Aide coffee pot! LOL

Sean and I were so surprised that our electricity did not
come back on during the night/early morning hours of last Tuesday after the
power went out late Monday evening. On Tuesday morning Carter, Ammon, and I went out for biscuits, but somehow by then, I wasn’t in a coffee mood. Up in the afternoon of Tuesday, I got a craving for coffee, and I went outside to the gas grill to check it
out. I had only imagined the North Georgia/Southeast Tennessee Blizzard of 1993
when my gas grill in Varnell worked, but took so long to just simply boil a
saucepan of water. I was dreading waiting for 30 minutes for a cup of coffee,
but I was willing to do so! We’ve had the grill for three years, and it has two
side panels as shelves. Folks, I had forgotten that the left shelf had a burner
under it. Yeeeeeeeeeeeeee haaaaaaaaa! There was my coffee burner! I clicked my
heels, ran in the house, got our glass saucepan, and made me two cups of
coffee. Boy, it was nice. The real treat was making coffee at 6:30 A.M. on
Wednesday morning before Carter and Ammon got up! I thought I was 13 years old
again and camping on Lake Lanier on one of our many fishing trips! Oh, the
memories, and oh that blessed caffeine! ;o)

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No Electronic Entertainment?!

Unfortunately, my children really love television. However,
they love to read as well, but they do spend loads of time more watching T. V.
than reading. When Carter wakes up in the morning, the first thing he wants to
do is “Turn on the T. V.” After 24 hours without power last Tuesday, both
Carter and Ammon had it archived in their minds that we had no power so that meant no T. V. On Wednesday morning, we had enough sunshine to get up to see things normally in the house. After breakfast, we decided that we wanted to read. It was the most we
had read at one time in probably a year. We read Marvin K. Mooney will you Please Go Now! two times (once for Carter and once for Ammon). We then read several other books as well.

After reading, we went outside to play, and I guess we
played for about 30 minutes. We wanted to play more, but we had to get ready
for Kindermusik. That play time was so fulfilling. Running, kicking soccer
balls, playing hop-scotch, and running while playing “you can’t catch me” were
all amplified and more enjoyable because we weren’t trapped by the indoors and
its magnetic-hypnotic appeal. I do hate having to do without electricity, but I
do enjoy that closeness we share when we depend on each other for entertainment.